I was reflecting on the difference between egotism and self-confidence. It is easy to confuse the two, and even more difficult to develop a healthy balance of being confident, but not overly confident or cocky.
Egotism or arrogance is the habit of thinking oneself as being more important than others; of boasting, being self-absorbed, and conceited. An arrogant person neglects others' opinions and suggestions thus alienating them, and conversely overestimates his or her own abilities.
Whereas self-confidence is knowing oneself and trusting in one’s own judgments, beliefs, and capabilities in dealing with daily challenges and demands, and in one’s ability to succeed. Being confident attracts people and earns their trust.
The willingness to learn about oneself and one’s life is key to developing healthy self-confidence and trust. The most effective way of doing this is to reflect on experiences, thoughts, emotions and feelings, and to process and understand our reactions, actions, thoughts, and speech arising from these experiences.
One can also cultivate habits throughout the day to grow belief in oneself.
Habits to Boost Self-Confidence:
Growing self-confidence is a contradiction because it requires you to act as though you are already confident. So the only thing to do it is to begin acting the part.
May you have much success in your journey to a happier confident you.